Do you wish you had the "magic words" to make you ex want
to return your phone call.
While it may sound nuts, the right words will really make
them feel like they have to call you back.
Cool huh?...
So, the answer to "How do I get my ex to return my phone call?
Or text message or email.
BUT...
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WARNING!
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You don't want to use this technique by itself
without a plan or strategy of what to do when they
do call you back! You may end up causing even more
damage to your relationship that way.
In the book, the Magic of Making Up, you will find
a complete strategy. So, if you think the message to
leave your ex is one you feel like you could try, you
should definitely check out the book and have planned
what to do next!
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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's
go over what message almost NEVER
works.
and worse...
Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.
These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like
"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd
time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY-
"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me
as soon as you get this."
Now, I think you can see what is wrong with
both of those approaches?
So, I won't go on and on...
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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are
*Curiosity &
*Self Interest
And here's the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you
have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'
So...
Let's look at what you can say
that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity
and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"
"What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And
he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now...
Before you call you need to do the
"Set Up"...which is figuring out what
he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing...but needs to
be believable.
But more importantly...
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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy
like you will find laid out in the
Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with
no underlying strategy and they
call you back you can do more
DAMAGE than good if you do not
handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is...
What you do before, during and
after you get them to return your
call is MORE important than getting
them to return your call.
Make sense?
Have a PLAN!More details here!
